Nobody buys this for the setup. They buy it for the bad week.
Almost every parent who came back to me came back with the same kind of message. Something happened — a group chat turned, a search history, a photo, a stranger, a 2am scroll they found out about by accident — and the question was never “what setting do I change.” It was “what do I say tonight.”
Get Complete — $99Everything in The System, plus the rest · 30-day refund
What Complete adds
The System covers the handover: settings, agreement, scripts, the first month. Complete covers the two years after it — which is where the genuinely hard parenting happens.
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The “it went wrong” playbook
Six situations, each with what to do in the first hour, what to say that night, and what to do in the following week. Porn exposure. A cruel group chat, whether your kid is on the receiving end or in it. A stranger in the DMs. A request for photos. Sneaking the phone at night. Something you found that they don’t know you found.
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The upgrade paths
What changes at 13, at 15, and when they get a car. Rules that don’t loosen on a schedule stop being rules and start being something to route around, and the loosening is the part parents never plan.
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The sibling problem
Your second kid will ask for a phone at a younger age than your first did, and they will have a point. How to hold a line that isn’t identical without it being unfair.
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Device guides, kept current
iPhone, Android, iPad, Chromebook, Nintendo Switch, PlayStation and Xbox. Updated when the operating systems change, which they do roughly twice a year and always in a way that quietly resets something you set.
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The family meeting kit
For households where two parents disagree about this, which is most of them. An agenda, the questions to work through, and a way to land somewhere you’ll both actually enforce.
Buy this one if
- You have more than one child, or one who’s nearly 13
- Something has already gone wrong and you’re reacting rather than planning
- You and the other parent aren’t aligned on this
- Your kid games as well as messages, so it isn’t only a phone
If none of those are true and you’re just handing over a first phone next month, buy The System instead. It’s $39 and it’s the right amount for where you are.
The strongest proof for this tier is a parent describing a bad week that went better than it would have. Ask for that specifically. Get written permission, change the child’s name, and never publish a quote you wrote yourself.
Get it
$99 one payment
- Everything in The System
- The “it went wrong” playbook
- Upgrade paths and sibling rules
- Device guides, kept updated
- The family meeting kit
Already bought The System? Email me and you’ll pay the difference, not the full price.
Questions
Is this worth $60 more than The System?
Only if the situations in the playbook are ones you can imagine happening. If your kid is nine and getting their first phone with heavy limits, probably not yet — buy The System and upgrade later for the difference.
What does “kept updated” mean, exactly?
When iOS or Android changes something that breaks a step in the guides, I redo that guide and you get the new version. No subscription, no expiry. If I ever stop maintaining it I’ll say so plainly rather than let it quietly rot.
My child is already deep in a bad situation.
Then start with the playbook, and please also talk to someone qualified. Serious harm — self-harm, exploitation, an adult contacting your child — needs professional and in some cases police involvement, not a PDF from a parent on the internet.
Refunds?
30 days, email me, done. You keep the files.